There’s an sex toy that will suit your fetish or desire for sensation. You can choose from a mouth sex toy, strokers, butt plugs, vibrators, cock rings and more for a solo session. Find the perfect sex toy for you with our guide!
Couples who use love games experience greater intimacy. Just make sure you choose toys made with body-safe materials and always pair them with plenty of lubricant!
Dildos
Dildos come in phallic shapes and can be used by themselves or with a partner. They come in a variety of sizes and styles. For example, some are handheld and designed to be gripped on the fingers or palm. Others are strapped onto the vulva with a harness or panty. There are dildos with flat bases that can be placed on flat surfaces for hands-free operation.
There are a variety of dildos, including silicone, rubber, glass, stainless-steel, and other materials. Silicone is a popular option because it’s hypoallergenic and non-porous, making it hygienic and easy to clean. It can flex to provide gentle stimuli. Glass and metal dildos feel harder and more intense. They tend to be warmer, making them a good choice for beginners and those who prefer firm stimulation.
Those who like more realistic sensations can opt for a fake penis style dildo that mimics the look and feel of a biological penis with real veins. When used with a partner, a fake penis-style dildo can increase pleasure.
To avoid irritation, it’s important to clean dildos after each use and use them with lubricant. It is recommended that you start with a smaller size, and then increase it as you gain confidence. It’s also good to experiment with different methods of use to see what works best for you.
Pleasure-based, queer-inclusive sex educator Lateef Taylor says dildos can be used to explore new pleasure sensations and fantasies and can bring couples closer together by helping them discuss what they like and don’t like during foreplay. In addition to boosting sexual satisfaction, open communication in relationships can boost happiness overall.
No matter what type of dildo is chosen, it’s essential to purchase from a reputable retailer to ensure that the product is safe for the body. Reputable dealers will usually offer toys free of phthalates and will provide accurate details about the product’s safety and use.
Prostate Massagers
Prostate massage hasn’t been studied all that much, but it seems to offer some benefits for men with prostate issues like enlarged prostate or prostatitis. And it’s become more popular with the advent of purpose-designed, safe, hygienic sex toys that are designed for prostate stimulation. Prostate massage is a popular solo activity. It can also be used during oral sex or masturbation, as well as in a sexual act with a partner.
A prostate masseuse is similar to a Dildo. It’s smaller, more curvy and usually has a soft surface. These toys are similar to dildos in that they are battery-driven, and vibrate at the tip. The prostate is buried in the rectal wall and a toy with a more rounded, slimmer shape may feel better. It’s best to start with a non-vibrating toy for beginners so that you can gradually get used to prostate play. And as with all sex toys, apply body-safe lube before inserting.
Toys with a flared base are also a good choice because that prevents the toy from getting lost in your anal canal. A toy with flared base is also easier to push back and forth on the anal wall. This increases sensation and allows foreplay.
For those who are more experienced, a toy similar to a dildo that vibrates may be the best choice. Look for a toy that offers a more pronounced curve and the ability to change the intensity of the vibrations. It’s also a good idea to find one that has a base wider than the tip, so it can be pressed against your anal walls for extra support. It’s important that your toy vibrates deeply and rumbly, preferably in a low, resonant pitch, similar to a guitar string. This is because the prostate gland is buried deep within the anal wall.
Prostate massage is not recommended for people with inflammatory or infectious prostatitis, uncontrolled prostate cancer or fissures in the anal canal or penis. It’s also important to wash your hand after prostate massage in order to prevent bacteria from spreading to other parts of your body. And people who have cancer or are undergoing prostate-specific antigen (PSA) testing should not have prostate massage before the test, as it can increase the sensitivity of the results and possibly lead to false positives.
Bullet Vibes
Bullet vibrators are small and compact (even more than the rabbit vibrator we discussed or the wand vibrator), making them a great option for a simple, no fuss climax. Despite their petite size, they offer enough sensation to help you reach orgasmic bliss and can be used in a variety of ways and positions. Plus, they’re discrete and quiet enough to use alone or with a partner, depending on your preferences. They can also be slipped between the lips for oral sex or outercourse, making them super versatile. Some models also have a tapered end for more precise stimulation.
This model is coated in hypoallergenic silicon for a soft touch and has 20 settings. It also has a remote, so you or your partner can control the vibrations and rhythm from up to 118 feet away. Plus, it’s waterproof so you can take your pleasure into the shower or bath with you.
Other bullet vibrators have a variety vibration patterns. From straight pulsing, to escalating. So you can find one that feels right for you. They’re also easy to stash in your purse or pocket for discreet play on the go. Some are designed to look like lipsticks so that you can easily stash them in a bag.
Try pairing it with another toy for some extra fun. A dildo can work well with it to add an element of suction and the two can be used in a variety of ways, from penetrative sex to oral sex. There are models that have G-spot stimulation built in.
Use a lubricant that is suitable for your vibrator. We recommend something water-based to avoid damaging the plastic or metal of your toy. And always use caution when inserting any sex toy, especially if you’re a beginner. Don’t give up if you’re not having the best of luck with a sex toy. It’s okay if you don’t experience an orgasm immediately; everyone’s body is different. The more you experiment, the closer you’ll be to finding what feels good to you.
G-Spot Stimulators
The G-spot, or sensitive area of tissue, is located a few inches within the vagina towards your belly button. The G-spot is said to be a key trigger for internal orgasms and is sometimes the reason why women are able to reach climax with a partner. Stimulating the g-spot with a vibrator is incredibly pleasurable and can result in a climax that blends with arousal from the clitor.
The shape of the g-spot is more curved than the dildos to allow for pinpoint stimulation. This type can help you create orgasms by allowing you to explore different positions, and through manual manipulation and internal stimuli.
A G-spot stimulator can be used by itself or in conjunction with other sex toys. It’s great to experiment with different angles, patterns, and intensities of vibration to find out what works best for you. Some people like a buzzy vibe that feels more surface-focused, while others prefer a rumbly vibration that penetrates the tissue more deeply.
Some gspot vibrators come with a dual head that stimulates both the Gspot and clitoral ridges. This allows them to combine g-spot with clitoral stimulation for blended orgasms. Darcy from NORMAL has a dual-sided design with two modes, including a curved-head for stimulating the g-spot as well as a stimulator for the clitoral area that simulates oral sex.
One thing worth mentioning is the importance of using a gspot massager at a comfortable, private, and safe location. It’s also important to take your time and focus on relaxation. Taking things slowly and getting accustomed to the feel of your sex toy will allow you to enjoy the pleasures it provides.
